Look, I'm very fortunate that I have an incredibly supportive husband, who probably sees the cracks in me before I do and does take on extra load in the household when need comes about. If I'm it's gonna be too much for me to go and pick my daughter up from school, for example, he'll just finish work early and go and get her. I can't I think it's it's a every balance in any household is gonna be different, but I think you need to lean on into the resources that you've got available to you. Sometimes it might be your parents, your your siblings, you know, it it does take the old adage, it does take a bit of a village to, maintain all our responsibilities, and it's okay to accept that help from people. None of us are completely concrete solo, anchors, are able to do everything ourselves.
Rebecca McKinley:I think sometimes we put that expectation on ourselves. It's not necessarily other people putting that expectation on us. Sometimes we can do everything. We feel invincible and we feel like we can do everything, and that's great. Lean into that when that happens.
Rebecca McKinley:But when the times come that you don't feel that, that's actually okay. It doesn't make you less than. If I think it actually makes you more than if you're able to, recognise that in yourself.